Understanding The Different Types Of Financial Dominants (Findoms)

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Thanks to the emergence of the internet, fet**hes and other BDSM desires have now become easier to explore and carry out. The touch of a bu*ton allows us to search through thousands of sites that detail the world of fet**hes and have also enabled us to communicate with other people who share our fantasies.

One fet**h that has gained popularity is findom. Findom stands for financial domination and incorporates a form of relationship or communication between two people where the power control is unbalanced. The relationship revolves around money and finances and some people still consider the nature of it a taboo.

What is findom?

Most people who seek to take part in financial dominance do so for one of two reasons, they want to find a way to lose control, or they want to find a way to make some extra cash. This seeking to lose control of their finances would be known as the submissive person within the findom relationship, they like the idea of losing power over their cash and some even enjoy the idea of being humiliated.

The people seeking to make some extra cash in the relationship would fall under the dominant category. These people may enjoy holding the power, giving orders and taking control of another person's finances. Most often than not they are women who consider themselves a dominatrix.

The sub will give the domme money in some way or the domme will take complete control of the sub's finances. Taking part in findom can include playing games such as spin the wheel, scrabble or paying fines or debts. There are many different ways to get involved and you can spend small amounts or large amounts, it’s up to you how much you want to be dominated.

Findom terms- understanding the jargon

The findom relationship, as already mentioned, has two specific roles. The submissive and the dominant and these can be referred to by a few different terms

Submissive can also be known as:

• Cash piggy
• Finsub
• Human ATM
• Money slave
• Paypig

Dominant can also be known as:

• Findomme
• Goddess
• Money domme/dom
• Money master
• Money mistress
• Cashmaster.

What types of findom are available?

There are a few different types of findom relationship, some more extreme than others. If you are new to findom, we recommend you get started with the softer style, spending or receiving smaller increments of money. Starting small can allow you to get a sense of what to expect before you go in full throttle.

Some examples of types of findom that are available are:

Soft

Soft findom refers to the domme taking on a softer approach to their control. Consider this the opposite of a dominatrix, the soft domme is elegant and possibly softly spoken. They are nice to their sub and allow some leeway in the relationship. Findom isn’t all degradation and humiliation, there is an audience out there who want a gentler experience.

Ethical

Very similar to soft findom- ethical findom takes on a softer approach than what you would initially expect from the combination of money and power. The style takes on a more caring approach and both members of the relationship feel that they are cared for by the other. Boundaries are not crossed and there is nothing evil or sinister about this style of findom.

Non-Ethical

This is the opposite of ethical findom. It takes on a more dangerous approach, it involves humiliation and degradation. The domme is mean to the sub and the sub enjoys this aspect. It tends to be a more popular style of findom as it is considered more exciting, subs tend to get a thrill from the thought of danger.

Fines

This is a fun way to take part in findom. Think of it being like a kinky swear jar. Both members of the findom partnership will come up with a list of fines e.g. if you clean your teeth, you must pay the dom five pounds/dollars. The fines can be anything which makes it more interesting, and the possibilities are endless. The amounts of money can increase or stay small/large, the choice is yours.

Blackmail

Although blackmail is a very big word, this type of findom mainly revolves around the idea of role play and humiliation. For example, the dom will threaten the sub by saying that they are going to release naked pictures of them on the internet unless they hand over some cash. The sub gets arousal from the idea that they may be humiliated and pays the dom to prevent them from doing so. It should be done in a controlled way, with lots of communication and with someone who you trust.

Tributes and gifts

This is usually a small amount of money/gift to prove the sub has serious intentions, otherwise it can lead to both parties wasting their time. In the findom world many men often say that they seek to be dominated, a tribute or gift will prove that they are serious about it.

Why use Findoms Only?

Findoms Only has been developed to provide a platform for those wishing to partake and experience all aspects of a findom relationship. We have created a safe space where users can chat about their fet**hes and desires free from any judgement.

The interface is easy to use and it’s straightforward to get signed up. Once signed up you can create your own profile, chat in forums, create a status and join in with conversations on the newsfeed.

Use the handy filter function to find exactly what you are looking for and even better, we have members from all over the world signed up just waiting to communicate with you.

If you need any help, we have a great team of staff who can offer support and guidance and they also keep the website running smoothly.

Summary

Overall, findom is a fet**h that can be exciting and arousing. Whether it is soft, ethical or unethical, there must be lots of communication between domme and sub and boundaries must always be set. It’s important to know what to expect and what your role will be. Once roles have been established, it can be thrilling to take part.

Findoms Only has a huge array of findom games and other experiences on offer and you can start browsing through some of the listings before you sign up. We have a ma**ive community of supportive and friendly people, and our team of staff will help you with every step, if needed.

Why not check out some of the people offering findom experiences today? Get signed up and you’ll be enjoying your role as a sub or domme in no time at all.

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